There’s a huge misconception about forgiveness. We think it makes us weak. Soft. Passive. Like we’re letting people off the hook or acting like nothing happened. But the truth is? Forgiveness is one of the most powerful things you can do. Because refusing to forgive might feel like power — but it’s not. It’s just […]

Hard Truths & Hot Topics, Letting Go, Growing Up

April 15, 2025

“Forgiveness Isn’t Weak — It’s How I Took My Power Back”

Let’s talk about the hypocrisy of cancel culture. Because it’s everywhere. And while I could write a novel, I’m going to try to keep this relatively short — and stick to just this part: the fact that we are addicted to public takedowns… but only until it’s someone we actually like. We love to tweet […]

Hard Truths & Hot Topics, Talk Like You’ll Answer for It

April 6, 2025

We Love Watching People Fall — Until It’s Someone We Like

Let’s be real: gossiping is not new. It’s not rare. And it’s definitely not something we like to admit we do — but let’s not lie to ourselves. Gossip feels… validating. At first. There’s a weird comfort in having a group of people who you can spill your thoughts to. The group chat. The coffee […]

Talk Like You’ll Answer for It

April 6, 2025

We Call It Processing — But It’s Just Talking Trash With Justification

This one’s for the girls who didn’t leave. For the ones who saw the shift — the silence, the sharp edges, the missing sparkle — and stayed anyway. The ones who kept texting even when the replies were slow. Who called. Who showed up. Who didn’t take the distance personally because they sensed something deeper. […]

People Who Change Us

April 5, 2025

Some People Leave. Some People Help You Stay Standing.

I couldn’t help but wonder… was she ever really my friend, or just someone who liked to keep me small?Over a year ago, I went through a friendship breakup that felt more painful than most actual relationships. I fought for it. I bent. I compromised. I justified. I swallowed my discomfort and silenced my gut […]

Letting Go, Growing Up, People Who Change Us

April 5, 2025

God Removed Her From My Life the Moment I Got Honest With Myself

I couldn’t help but wonder… when did we stop calling it lust? Let’s get one thing straight: lust doesn’t only live in a guy’s brain. It’s not some male-exclusive moral battle that shows up the moment a guy gets WiFi and click happy. I’m a Catholic woman. I love Jesus. And I still struggle with […]

Mirror Talk

April 5, 2025

Yes, I Struggle With Lust — No, I’m Not a Man